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Man vs. Woman Series #1

New year, new purpose, new goals.

I asked Mike last night what his goals for 2011 were. He replied, "I don't have any." I asked it in this way specifically because I know he doesn't believe in New Year's resolutions.

I said, "Exactly. That's what makes you such a man."

I, on the other hand, when asked, replied, "Well, first I'd like to shed 30 lbs, run my first 5K and get better about money." Which makes me such an ambitious, over-committed, over-achiever.

He said, "Wow, a 5K, really?"

He's a doubter.

I did convince him to finally buy a bike and commit to riding it three times a week. He said he'd go get one this weekend. We'll see about that.

Baby steps.

*in an effort to start yet another goal for 2011, I'm trying something new on the blog simply called my Man vs. Woman Series. I've got lots to say, so stay tuned.


  1. That is too funny! I had nearly the same conversation with my husband the other day. He never creates resolutions for the new year and I always create way too many...wonder why that is.

    (I love your blog and I'm looking forward to this new series in 2011!)


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